Sunday, April 6, 2014

Follow the Baton: A blog Hop

I received an invitation from Wendy Van Camp who writes the blog nowastedink.com to pass a baton in a blog hop - which since I sometimes limp, seemed like something I could stride into ...


I guess it's sort of a chain-letter-kind-of-thing, but since it's a blog and not a letter, it leaves behind the unfortunate stigma associated with the former.


Besides, it's fun, right? Well, I'll let you know after it's done.


First of all, I've got to overcome my computer liabilities - as in, I'm not very good at it. Then, I have to master the links. (Refer to previous comment). After that, I pass the virtual 'baton' to 3 fresh writers of blogs, all of whom have impressed me with their passion and words.


But before all that, I answer 4 questions - which makes me think I'm the youngest boy at a Passover Seder. (There's an illusion to distract you ... ) So, here goes the relay ...


1) WHAT AM I WORKING ON?


I am writing my first book, a memoir, titled TORTURE, about a trauma accident and the ensuing fallout. (Pardon the pun) It has been an arduous journey, nearly three years of my life, and will publish later this year.


2) HOW DOES MY WORK DIFFER FROM OTHERS OF ITS GENRE?


It's my first book. That should tell you it will be different. I've published many articles and written for numerous projects, but all that becomes irrelevant to a certain degree when one undertakes the task of a book. Although I've read many memoirs and consulted many experts, in the end, it is my heart and soul bleeding onto the pages, so it will be uniquely mine.


3) WHY DO I WRITE WHAT I DO?


I'm writing a memoir for all the usual reasons - a cathartic expression, a need to tell my story, a searching for illumination regarding what happened to me, to get out the proverbial 'thorn'. But, mostly I write because I had no choice. I've come to the conclusion that most memoir writers write because they have to. It's write - or be wrong.


4) HOW DOES YOUR WRITING PROCESS WORK?


Process? Hahahahahhahaaaa. *Falls out of chair, laughing* First, I had to develop a 'practice'. That took a long time. I tried an outline, but memoirs have a way of drawing outside the lines. I make lots of notes and unfortunately, they occur at the most inopportune times - say, like when I'm in the shower? Or, driving 80 miles an hour? At the gym, on a treadmill? The best stuff comes when I'm not even trying. But the book does consume me, both awake and asleep. (What's that?)


Now, I do write everyday. Because if I don't, the guilt gremlin chases me around. Often I write more than once, but early mornings seem to produce the best results. I know. I know ... other writers have already pointed this out. But it's true. When you are closer to sleep - at either end - stuff seems to have more gravity.


The computer is too difficult (I already made this point), and I like the feel of pen and paper, and a certain free flowing kind of pen. I handwrite into a journal, then transcribe to the computer (erroneously counting that as a sort of edit), then copy it in 14 different places and ways (because I don't trust my techno skills), and actually print it on paper, too, for a read and cursory second edit.


PASSING THE BATON:


I will pass the baton to 3 other writers whom I admire greatly and hope you will enjoy discovering the same and more with them! First, I thank Wendy for inviting me to this party - (where's the cheese?) and she's always writing or entering contests and inspires me with her amazing word counts, which usually amount to the words I write in a month, but Wendy does them in a day!
http://nowastedink.com  is Wendy's link.




1) Gerry Buncher


I have known Gerry since I was a teenager. (way, way back in the dark, dark ages ... of black dial phones and typewriters - Goggle it if you need to know what those are ... ). Gerry didn't know it then, but he was a formulating inspiration to me. Perhaps as the director of a youth musical I participated in, he sowed the seed of show business, which eventually became a career for me. We had fun. We went our own ways. And then Facebook, that illustrious finder of all people from everywhere brought us back together. Now, Gerry inspires me more. He is passionate for his causes and a promoter of good health in a time when that is an anomaly. I hope you will discover him for yourself. He is a cool cat. (Vernacular to go with the dark ages of our youth together.)


Here is what Gerry writes about himself, along with his link:
t was a dark and stormy political/cultural/religious night with demons and devils roaming roughshod completely out of control. Hyperbole and hypocrisy harmoniously ran through the veins of politicians, pundits so out of control that unless stopped there was no telling how ruinous and ridiculous this virus would get. So it was time for Gerry Buncher to Blog away the stupid, identify the insane and call out the fiction lovers smacking them in the face with fact. For over five years seeking truth, justice, equality and freedom Gerry Buncher has tried to set a record straight regarding the virtues and victories of people whose voices are never quite as loud as the monsters and the makers of those of creatures.
gerrybuncherblogspot.com has been around for five years. I have taken my two an half decades of communal service experience of listening to people in hopes of finding solutions into writing my blog. I have selected topics that I believe are used to divide and conquer when in fact they should be nothing more then reasons to find a common ground. In communal work the ideal is finding a sense of community, and just exactly your place in that environment, for me to blog is to also find sanctuary.
http://gerrybuncher.BlogSpot.com




2) Catherine Yesayan


Catherine is a member of Women Who Write - WWW - an esteemed writers group nationally known and facilitated by the amazing Vicki Abelson. (Vicki is also an incredible writer and sponsors monthly salons and writers workshops.)
Catherine has a depth of understanding about many world events and a personal story unlike any other. I've heard her read and her blog is a tribute to her life and the lives of others. Give it a look!


Catherine writes about herself:
I'm game. the name of my blog is BEYOND THE BLUE DOMES. I started my blog on May of 2009. In earlier posts, I shared memories about growing up in Iran during the Shah, fleeing the country at age thirty, because of the Islamic revolution an...d then raising a family in the United States. Lately I'm posting my thoughts on stories or news that have touched me. My theme is exploring social realities and the intersections within cultures, and preserving history.
http://beyondthebluedomes.blogspot.com/


3) Cheryl Nielsen


Cheryl is also a member of WWW and we have exchanged several interesting comments back and forth. I recently enjoyed meeting her at a workshop with WWW, and she specializes in divorce coaching and has already published works relating to that subject. Cheryl is enthusiastic about helping others avoid the pitfalls of painful separation and her attitude and attributions make her an expert worth reading!


Cheryl writes a terrific blog and here is a partial bio from her site:
 Cheryl Nielsen was born and raised in Southern California.    She speaks two languages – English and “Wine Babble.”
She is the author of the book entitled: Meritage Divorce: A Blend of Financial, Physical, Emotional and Spiritual Guidance…Through Wine Colored Glasses  and coaches through Meritage Divorce Journey Workshops adapted from
her book.  In her coaching practice, she combines her personal wisdom, vineyard experience and love for wine with her coaching skills to assist clients in becoming “re-produced.”  The journey is laced with wine metaphors and analogies and embarks on self-discovery through the “barrel refinement process.”

http://meritagedivorce.com






All three of these writers will entertain and inform you at the same time.


I'm running to the end of the line here - (looking for the water boys ...?) and there it is - The Finish Line.


Happy Reading Everyone.


Just Another Lori Story.

4 comments:

  1. Thanks for the lovely nod, Lori! Enjoyed your post, thrilled that a couple of the wominz are participating through your referral. FYI, we're Vicki Abelson's Women Who Write... not for my ego... that's everything else––rather because there's a small writer's group elsewhere's in the land of the same name... without the Vicki Abelson part. If anyone wishes to find us they'll include that name of mine. And, I hope anyone reading this will join our Facebook Group for ongoing community and support. Ah... the daily discipline... today's day 3648. Look forward to being tortured by Torture.

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  2. Thanks for your comment, Vicki Abelson, of VICKI ABELSON'S WOMEN WHO WRITE! For what it's worth, no other group with or without that tag in any land anywhere could compete! You complete us! (sorry, Tom Cruise.) Hey, what about Tom Cruise? Let's get him to read for us! Thanks, Vicki for ALL you do to inspire greatly our jellied puddles of proficiency. TORTURE is coming!

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  3. Great fun, Lori! Maybe some day I can catch a baton!

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  4. Thanks Mary! Holler out to Catherine or whoever runs next - I'm sure they'd be honored - I know I would!

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